| Ya know, this has been bothering me a little for the past few days and I figured I would just let it out on xanga  Like I've said in my past post that boys arent perfect and they never will be. But guys, I dont think some of you (not all) know how to really treat a lady, I'm not just talking about like opening the door for her, which is a plus, but I am talking about how to handle her heart. Yes, we (girls) can be alittle weird, moody, emotional, (and whatever else there is) sometimes, but we do have feelings and sometimes I think guys dont know how to handle or take care of our feelings. Girls tend to fall faster then the boys do in relationships, not always, but most of the time. And thats not a bad thing, its just thats how we are. But we tend to give the guy our heart and trust that he will take care of it and handle it very carefully, but I dont think guys realize that. Boys, if you know you have a girls heart please take care of it, dont juggle it around, dont crush it, try not to disappoint it, and dont break it. Yea, I know all of these things will happen, b/c thats a part of life. But if you dont want to be with her anymore, just tell her, dont lead her own into thinking "it might work, lets just take sometime apart and see how that goes"....dont do that....tell her the truth right then, dont keep her hanging on a few weeks, and then decide "well, maybe this isnt going to work".....I'm not saying totally kick her to the curb, but dont lead her on either, for a few weeks or months. Girls get there feelings hurt easier than guys and you need to understand that. Girls put everything they have into a relationship, they try to do everything right and do anything for that guy and that sucks sometimes, b/c we get screwed at the end. But if you have a girl now, treat her with all that you have and be gentle with her. And if she hurts you, let her know. But if you have feelings for her or if something's bothering you, you need to tell her, we, as girls need to be told these things. If you think we're pretty, if we look nice that day, if you love us, if youre proud of us, tell us, dont just assume we know....we need to hear those things, not b/c we're insecure, b/c we want you to love us and be proud of us and so on. But dont talk to us or treat us like we're your ole' buddy, we are you girlfriend, so treat us that way! But girls if you're not in a relationship now, dont give up. God has someone for you who will meet your needs. And that guy is going to love you more than anything and treat you like you are everything to him. If you know in your heart what kind of guy or girl you want to be with the rest of your life, be careful who you date and dont date someone you cant see yourself marrying. In Psalms it talks about your hearts desire...God will give you your hearts desire if you pray about it. Just trust in the Lord and He will take care of you, I promise. So thats all I wanted to say.... And I'm not speaking for every girl out there....some are different, I am just speaking on from girls I know and me personally......anyway....hope you have a wonderful day
Psalm 37:4
Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. |
